前言 For ewor d ···································································································· 1 自序 Preface········································································································ 3

第 1 章 大情圣背后之谜 The Mystery beh ind Casano va ········································· 4

1.1 得到女人的步骤 ··························································································································4

1.2 精通求爱的科学 ··························································································································5

1.3 破解把到正妹的密码 ··················································································································5

1.4 打造谜男······································································································································6

第 2 章 人生的终极目标 The Ultimate Purpos e of Life ············································ 8

2.1 人生的终极目标 ··························································································································8

2.2 人生的第二目标 ··························································································································8

2.3 你这一生的目标 ··························································································································8

2.4 为了生存或繁殖而训练？···········································································································9

2.5 动态社交平衡 ····························································································································10

2.6 生物机器····································································································································10

2.7 S与R价值 ··································································································································· 11

2.8 接近焦虑···································································································································· 11

2.9 马斯洛的需求层次理论·············································································································12

2.10 重要的焦点领域 ························································································································13

2.11 重点复习····································································································································15

第 3 章 改写她的恋爱电路 Rewiring Her Attr action Circuitr y······························· 16

3.1 情感的动物 ································································································································16

3.2 孔雀理论····································································································································17

3.3 社会认知····································································································································17

3.4 一致性测试 ································································································································19

3.5 投资············································································································································19

3.6 别扭与冲突 ································································································································20

3.7 好玩与刺激 ································································································································20

3.8 女人了解社交力学 ····················································································································21

3.9 评价女人的外表 ························································································································21

3.10 猫绳理论····································································································································21

3.11 男朋友········································································································································22

3.12 重点复习····································································································································23

第 4 章 游戏的规则与架构 Rules and Structure of the Game··································24

4.1 游戏要在现场玩 ························································································································24

4.2 谜男指派的菜鸟任务 ················································································································24

4.3 标准化与内化 ····························································································································24

4.4 过程重于结果 ····························································································································25

4.5 性关系的结构 ····························································································································25

4.6 求爱············································································································································26

4.7 吸引············································································································································26

4.8 M3 模型 ·····································································································································28

4.9 M3 顺序的四个错误··················································································································29

4.10 游戏地点····································································································································35

4.11 M3 模型的九个阶段··················································································································36

4.12 重点复习····································································································································38

第 5 章 A1：打开组合 Open ··················································································39

5.1 邂逅地点····································································································································39

5.2 逼近············································································································································40

5.3 三秒法则····································································································································40

5.4 三分钟例外 ································································································································41

5.5 开场白········································································································································41

5.6 人在现场····································································································································41

5.7 防护罩········································································································································42

5.8 罐装材料····································································································································43

5.9 适当呈现材料 ····························································································································44

5.10 假性时间限制 ····························································································································44

5.11 社交认证····································································································································47

5.12 重点复习····································································································································48

第 6 章 A2：女对男的兴趣 Female-to-Male Interest ··············································49

6.1 兴趣指标····································································································································49

6.2 无兴趣指标 ································································································································51

6.3 否定理论····································································································································51

6.4 否定的种类 ································································································································54

6.5 展示高价值 ································································································································55

6.6 团体理论····································································································································56

6.7 多重对话脉络 ····························································································································57

6.8 切断对话脉络 ····························································································································57

6.9 扮演僚机····································································································································58

6.10 讲故事········································································································································60

6.11 锁定道具····································································································································60

6.12 锁定············································································································································61

6.13 角色扮演····································································································································61

6.14 假性失格····································································································································62

6.15 视觉记忆DHV ···························································································································62

6.16 团体力学：领导男人，女人就会跟随 ·····················································································63

6.17 抵押············································································································································65

6.18 枢纽············································································································································65

6.19 顺向与逆向融合 ························································································································65

6.20 如何练习游戏手法 ····················································································································66

6.21 重点复习····································································································································67

第 7 章 A3：男对女的兴趣 Male-to -Female Int erest ··············································68

7.1 框架控制····································································································································68

7.2 圈套理论····································································································································69

7.3 角色逆转····································································································································71

7.4 要有标准····································································································································72

7.5 筛选············································································································································73

7.6 间歇性········································································································································73

7.7 进挪升高····································································································································74

7.8 服从············································································································································77

7.9 从社交地位解释她对搭讪的认知 ·····························································································85

7.10 重点复习····································································································································87

第 8 章 交谈 Con versation ·················································································88

8.1 冷冻············································································································································88

8.2 建立舒适感的地点 ····················································································································89

8.3 三种建立舒适感的场地·············································································································89

8.4 游戏的五种场地 ························································································································89

8.5 C1 地点：邂逅场地内部的任何建立舒适感之场所 ································································90

8.6 移动到C1 ···································································································································90

8.7 对话的和谐关系 ························································································································90

8.8 共通点········································································································································92

8.9 同谋意识····································································································································93

8.10 敏感面········································································································································94

8.11 惩罚／奖赏 ································································································································94

8.12 嫉妒情节····································································································································95

8.13 制造嫉妒感的示范 ····················································································································95

8.14 背景植入····································································································································96

8.15 重点复习····································································································································99

第 9 章 中场游戏与结尾游戏 Mid-Game and End-Game ······································· 100

9.1 亲吻·········································································································································· 101

9.2 C2 地点：任何不同于邂逅地点与性爱地点的建立舒适感地点··········································· 101

9.3 换场·········································································································································· 102

9.4 电话游戏（摘自谜男沙发吧，Lovedrop关于电话游戏的文章）········································· 104

9.5 关于放鸽子 ······························································································································ 105

9.6 约会（摘自谜男沙发吧，Lovedrop关于约会的文章） ························································ 105

9.7 C3 地点：性爱地点内部的任何建立舒适感地点 ·································································· 107

9.8 性爱地点·································································································································· 107

9.9 从C3 到S1 ································································································································ 107

9.10 S2：最后一刻的抵抗 ·············································································································· 108

9.11 摧毁最后一刻的抵抗 ·············································································································· 108

9.12 玩正确的游戏 ·························································································································· 109

9.13 冷冻·········································································································································· 109

9.14 S3：性爱·································································································································· 109

9.15 重点复习·································································································································· 111

结语 | 前进与征服 Con clus ion | Go fort h and Conquer ·······································112

谜男的信 A Bonus Lett er fro m Mystery ······························································113 把妹术语一览表 Gl oss ary ····················································································114